New to this series? I’m going through the KonMari method from The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up to clean my house out once and for all! So far, I have: cleaned my clothes out, shared my modified capsule wardrobe, dealt with our books, got my paperwork organized, purged our kitchen and bathrooms, as well as our living spaces. Today is finally the end of this giant project! I’m cleaning out sentimental items…and then I’ll be DONE!
Ahhh, we’ve reached the end of the road. It’s the final category of the KonMari organizing challenge and it feels good!
Like I mentioned a couple of weeks ago, I still have a few things left to tackle in my tidying journey, but as a whole I have made an incredible amount of progress and I’m shocked at how much I have managed to get rid of. We have donated bags upon bags of clutter and our house feels so much lighter! I think we’ll probably keep clearing things out slowly but surely over the next few months, but overall I would definitely call this project a success!
Let’s chat about the last category – sentimental items.
Of all the areas that needed organizing in my home, this was the area I was least concerned about. I know Kondo suggests doing this one last because it’s often the hardest for people, but that’s definitely not true for me. I’m not a hugely sentimental person and while there are some things I’m attached to, it’s never too much stuff to fit into a couple of small storage boxes.
I have a box for Jackson and a box for Corey and me. Jackson’s box is safely tucked away on the bookshelves in his room, and I keep ours under the bed in the guest room. They don’t take up a ton of room and they’re generally out of sight. I will admit, however, that my weakness when it comes to sentimental items is photographs. I can’t get enough of them, and I’m definitely a photo album hoarder. I have some scrapbooks that I made for Corey throughout our dating years, and then I have our yearly family scrapbooks plus a slightly absurd amount of Chatbooks.
So, despite the fact that I’m pretty good at keeping my sentimental items to a minimum, I knew I had at least a little bit of cleaning and organizing to do. If nothing else, it was a really good way to take a walk down memory lane.
Here are my tips and tricks for decluttering if you have a lot of extra sentimental items:
– Take a picture! I know, I already admitted that photos are my weakness but they sure do take up a lot less space than keeping the actual item. I did this with a few different things that I’ve been holding onto for a long time, and having a photo of it is just as meaningful to me as having the real thing. This works best for things like souvenirs from events or shows, children’s art, and decor/toys that are meaningful but you don’t need anymore.
– Upcycle when you can. If it’s a piece of furniture or decor that just isn’t quite your style, try to give it a makeover. If you have a ton of t-shirts or baby clothes that you can’t bear to get rid of, turn them into a quilt. Frame some special kids’ art that you just can’t throw away. We so often hide away things that we want to keep but don’t want to display when, really, we could just repurpose them and fall in love with them all over again!
– Ask yourself why you want to keep it. Do you actually use it or look at it regularly? What purpose does the item serve if all it does is sit in a box tucked away somewhere? There are some things I keep that I don’t look at very often, but I try to keep those to a bare minimum – if it’s taking up space in my home, I want it to be either useful or on display!
– Give it a new life. We have some things in our home that were handed down from family or that were sentimental to someone else in our lives but they aren’t actually things we use or are overly attached to. So, rather than keep them around just because they hold some sentimental value, we look for ways that we can give them a new life with someone else. Maybe you know of someone who could really use some baby clothes, or you have a piece of hand-me-down furniture that would go perfectly in a friend’s house. Sometimes it’s just as special to know that the things that mean a lot to you are getting good use, and it’s better to give it a new home and enjoy the knowledge that someone else is giving it some love.
– Recognize that sometimes the memory is all you need. This last strategy was exactly what I needed in order to let go of quite a bit of the items I had in my boxes that I hadn’t looked at in forever. There were so many things in there that I had kept because they were tied to a special memory, but I finally recognized that I don’t really need those items in order to keep the memory. I poured over them one last time and let it all soak in, and then I let go of them. It felt good to clear my boxes out a bit more, and I sincerely doubt I’ll end up missing any of the things I purged.
I think my final step here will be to find a pretty box to keep our sentimental stuff in – I think I’ll be more likely to pull it out every once in a while if it’s not just shoved in an old cardboard box!
I’m so excited to be at the end of this whole little challenge, but I know that this isn’t really the end for me. Corey and I are still planning on cleaning out our garage and our workshop this summer, and we’ll have to tackle the guest bedroom eventually – but as a whole I’m incredibly proud of how much we were able to purge from our home, and I think we made a pretty awesome amount of progress! I’m finding that I’m keeping our home cleaner and more organized on a day-to-day basis now that our home isn’t stuffed to the gills with stuff, and I’m more motivated than ever to keep clearing the excess out!
I’m curious, though – how are you with sentimental items? Do you like to hold on to a lot, or are you able to let go and just keep the memory?
Psst: See below to find out how to download my FREE KonMari checklist to help you go through the process on your own – but stay tuned in the next few weeks because I have a major surprise coming your way. There may or may not be a whole eBook full of organizing tips and tricks coming your way (and I’m so excited to finally get to share it!).
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